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I always look forward for a long weekend. A week of rest and rejuvenate... relaxation! Do nothing! Lazing around! Is this signs of old age? Arrgghh... I need a massage! I wish I'm staying near the beach, so that I can lay on the beach, read a book and feel the breeze of the ocean... So nice! Hello Island, Beach, Ocean... and of coz u people... I'll be there soon! The Ocean The ocean is very wide and very deep When I dream, I smell the breeze Which is so sweet, I see the never ending waves I wonder where they go.... Do they go to a land, that I could know Birds fly in the wind, catching fish with eyes so keen I can hear the sound, I wonder what it means The ocean so blue, like the clouds of the sky Part of life, flying by Let me open my arms, let me feel the wind I can go to another time and I know I will fit in I want to sail on a boat and hold my fingers in the cool water As the waves come to me, I am one with the ocean My life is now free, let me taste the drops upon my ...

A man was walking along a California beach and stumbled across an old lamp. He picked it up and rubbed it and out popped a genie! The genie said, "OK. You released me from the lamp, blah, blah blah. This is the fourth time this month and I'm getting a little sick of these wishes. So you can forget about getting three wishes. You only get one wish. The man sat down on the beach and thought about it for awhile. Then he said, "I've always wanted to go to Hawaii; but I'm scared to fly and I get very seasick. Could you build me a bridge to Hawaii so that I can drive over there to visit?" The genie laughed and said, "That's impossible! Think of the logistics of that! How would the supports ever reach the bottom of the Pacific? Think of how much concrete... how much steel...! No. Think of another wish." The man tried to think of another wish. Finally, he said, "I've been married and divorced several times. My wives always said that I don't...

I had this serious stomach pain almost everyday since last week, but I thought it's because of some food I took. I had to cancel my meeting with my friend last weekend, I can't really sit in the office, I had cold sweat and sometime felt like vomiting after meal. I've been delaying my appointment with Dr., due to my busy-ness and scared to know what is really happening. Today, I had the courage to go to the clinic, accompanying me, my two nephews ... and Dr. said.. that's gastric! Your blood pressure is 120/70 and you have to continue taking the medcine for about two weeks, than you should be fine... !

Last weekend I wished for a rain and now for two days a light rain had been falling. Can I wish for a snow? Haha… A short break is coming for me by end of this month, I hope all the projects can smoothly moving. Come on, let’s move!!! I’m tired of waiting, I’m tired of everything! I’ve been thinking of quit and give up work for a year. Can I?

Have you ever felt lonely and sad? Some people said being alone, not necessarily meant that you are lonely. Some people can be alone for a long time, but enjoying the things that he or she does, without feeling lonely. Right, sometimes, I do have that feelings, but today I really felt so lonely and very sad. I felt that I'm so alone with my dreams, trying to make things happen... I’m trying very hard... May God help me to go through all the difficulties that I faced every day. May God show me the right path that I should take. May God give me more strength to wake up every dawn and move on... Lonely... Remember the time, when you were here inside my dreams, I wish you'd be mine, your understanding what I need, discover and see, that you’re the only one for me, together we'll be free, that's how its meant to be ... Reason... There's something in your eyes I know I can't resist. Something in the air, I don’t know why. You were hardly there when I was on my own. T...

I’m keeping my fingers crossed that I will get the good news and hope that something good will happen. (I’m supposed that is the promises given). But then it is all about good or bad, yes or no. How someone you love could ever tell you that? It’s so cruel.

I’m feeling a bit down for some reason. A bit depressed. Just minor not that big depression but it makes me kind of lazy, tired and don’t want to work. I just want to go out and do things other then what I normally did.

Once upon a time, there is a lady stop-by at Hyde Park in London and talking to herself... I can walk around from one place to another, from one shopping center to another, alone in a big city like Jakarta, but I’m not allowed to do it in Kuala Lumpur. I just want to go shopping. Why not? I want to see Air Supply “From The Heart” World Tour 2008, LIVE in Malaysia. 22 June, 8:00pm @ Arena Of Stars, Genting Highland . Can I? I want to change my car. But I don’t know what car to choose nor should I change now, can I get better price if I wait further. How? I want to change my handbag, but “rambang mata”. There are too many selections, too many varieties. ???? Tomorrow is a holiday. The planning to go shopping is still suspended till I got any of my sisters to accompanying me. I can spend more time with Owen. I need my father to come to my house to do some drilling thing on the wall. Few things I’ve bought not been put up yet. I’m going to meet my friend Gowri on Sunday at Aeon Bukit Tingg...

"I always ask him, Are you happy? Is it okay if I do this or that? Can I do this, can I do that? What you like? You like it with this or you want me to do that? Why I always concern about his feeling? Why I always want to make him happy? I know, asking “WHY” questions can only send us in circles. But I’m in my own circle of questions… so let me go around and around for a while! He never bothers asking about my feeling, whether I’m happy or not. Why is it? Maybe because he knows my answer, he can read my mind, he knows me very well or maybe he don’t want to hear my answer. He scared to hear my answer. He scared if he can’t do much to help me. He is helpless. Let me ask myself… Are you happy baby? No I’m not. How are you feeling today baby? I’m sad, I’m angry & I’m depressed. What will be his reply or next questions? It’s a full stop!! The End! No further conversation. Or if at all he wants to say something that will be… I know where this leading to… But does all my answer bot...

Rina menjemput pakwenya.. Tom untuk pergi kerumah berjumpa kedua ibubapanya sambil makan malam.. Kalau Tom bersetuju.. Rina berjanji akan tidur bersamanya selepas makan malam tersebut.. Setelah berfikir agak lama.. akhirnya Tom bersetuju dan membuat beberapa persiapan... Dia lalu pergi ke sebuah farmasi dan bertemu dengan pemilik farmasi tersebut untuk meminta nasihat dan tunjuk ajar... Tom : "Pakcik.. Malam ni.. buat pertama kalinya saya akan meniduri kekasih saya jadi saya ingin membeli ubat yang paling baik untuk menguatkan ketahanan dan mempercepatkan ransangan.. saya juga ingin.. membeli kondom yang paling tahan.." Pemilik Farmasi : "Berapa banyak kamu mahu kondomnya?" Tom : "12 keping.. kerana saya mahu mengulangi sebanyak 12 kali" Selesai berurusan di Farmasi tersebut... Tom terus balik ke rumahnya... Malam pun tiba.. Di Rumah Rina... Tom duduk di sisi makwenya itu.. berhadapan dengan kedua orang tua Rina... 30 minit berlalu.. Tom banyak tunduk dan ...

There was this museum laid with beautiful marble tiles, with a huge marble statue displayed in the middle of the lobby. Many people came from all over the world just to admire this beautiful marble statue. One night, the marble tiles started talking to the marble statue. Marble tile: Marble statue, it's just not fair, it's just not fair! Why does everybody from all over the world come all the way here just to step on me while admiring you? Not fair! Marble statue: My dear friend, marble tile. Do you still remember that we were actually from the same cave? Marble tile: Yeah! That's why I feel it is even more unfair. We were born from the same cave and yet we receive different treatment now. Not fair!" Marble statue: Then, do you still remember the day when the designer tried to work on you, but you resisted the tools? Marble tile: Yes, of course I remember. I hate that guy! How could he use those tools on me, it hurt so badly. Marble statue: That's right! He couldn...

A message for for those who are about to welcome their daugther in law(s).... I like this article.... It is a myth that when a son gets married and a new daughter in law arrives in the family, everything changes. Some daughters in law are well trained and well mannered!!!!!. They don't come to change the family, they are there to............ The new wife (woman of today) was being welcomed at the husband's home in a traditional manner. As expected she gave a speech: My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family", she said "Firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to change your way of life, your routine. No, I will never do that, never in a million years". "What do you mean my child?" Asked the father in law. "What I mean dad is (looking at her father in law): Those who used to wash dishes must carry on washing them. Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it. Those who cooked shouldn't stop a...

a very insightful and inspiring story... There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life. He told t...

Setiap kali berkunjung ke rumah saudara mara terutama di majlis perkahwinan atau kunjungan hari raya (hemm tak lama lagi) atau ketika berjumpa teman-teman yang sudah lama tidak bertemu, satu soalan atau pertanyaan yang paling mengusik jiwa raga saya iaitu “Bila nak kahwin?”. Saya baru berumur 32 tahun dan 7 bulan lagi ianya akan berubah ke angka 33. Masa berlalu terlalu pantas. Adakah sebab pertambahan nombor itu merunsingkan orang disekeliling saya dan sering mengejar saya dengan pertanyaan “Bila nak kahwin?”. Apakah usia yang paling wajar atau sesuai untuk berumahtangga? Tetapi pada saya, masalahnya sekarang bukannya usia yang sesuai untuk berumahtangga, tetapi mengenai perkahwinan atau pernikahan itu sendiri. Jodoh dan pertemuan, ajal dan maut adalah ditentukan oleh Allah Maha Esa. Pada saya menikah atau kahwin itu tidak wajib. Maksud saya, bukan seperti Sembahyang dan Puasa, yang mana wajib untuk kita laksanakan. Perkahwinan itu adalah sesuatu yang sangat suci, satu ikatan yang men...

Three mice are sitting at a bar in a pretty rough neighborhood late at night, trying to impress each other about how tough they are. The first mouse throws down a shot of bourbon, slams the empty glass onto the bar, turns to the second mouse and says, "When I see a mousetrap, I lie on my back and set it off with my foot. When the bar comes down, I catch it in my teeth, bench press it twenty times to work up an appetite, and then make off with the cheese." The second mouse orders up two shots of tequila, drinks them down one after the other, slams both glasses onto the bar, turns to the first mouse and replies, "Oh yeah? When I see rat poison, I collect as much as I can, take it home, grind it up to a powder, and add it to my coffee each morning so I can get a good buzz going for the rest of the day." The first mouse and the second mouse then turn to the third mouse. The third mouse finishes the beer he has in front of him, lets out a long sigh and says to the first ...

When in doubts, leave it to the hands of God, because He knows what the Best is for you....... ~Like the way Eve was 'shaped' from Adam's rib~ Bone of My Bone, Flesh of My Flesh Years ago, I asked God to give me a spouse. "You don't have one because you didn't ask", God said. Not only did I ask for a spouse but I also explained what kind of spouse I wanted. I wanted a nice, tender, forgiving, passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm, intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful spouse. I even mentioned the physical characteristics I dreamt about. As time went by, I added to the list or requirements of my wanted spouse. One night, in my prayer, God talked to my heart: "My servant, I cannot give you what you want." I asked, "Why God?" God said, "Because I am God and I am fair. God is the truth and all I do is true and right." I asked, "God, I don't understand why I cannot hav...

J- hi dear! sibuk ke? rainin ere n i dnt think my student wil come so, il cu aftr work at usual place 4 tea ok? Hah Hah.. mcm betul je!! J- ye ke? Im adding more photo 2nite, yg gila2 sikit. U c my short hair? Mcm army kan? hate it.. SWIMMING?? Welcome 2 my world.. cu later aftr gym.. same place! > khee J- workout tak ari ni? jgn malas2 tau.. S- Just after w.out! Rainin ere, gotto run 2 my car, jauh plak tu! Ok kita jumpa tempat biasa. J- ur late! i dah lama tunggu.. Khee S- So dah makan berapa pinggan? I rasa nak makan laksa J- i belum mkn lagi tunggu u dtg, pastu kita pegi sri hartamas ye? nak mkn mee rebus hj.wahid.. S- Apa ni! Janji kat klang, im on d way ni! Emmm mana u tau restnt kat hartamas? J- benci betul la... U yang pilih hartamas tadi. kata nak try stall yg jual kacang pol.. in tht case i go bck jb 1st la.. date u nxt time.. S- Ee tak nak kawan u lah! Baliklah jb! Next x u kena masak! kacang pol tu macam mana? I dah sampai rumah J- kcg pol tu middle east punya food. roti...

One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?" "It was great, Dad." "Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked. "Oh yeah," said the son. "So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father. The son answered: "I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy ou...

What a terrible headache I got today... after some melodrama last night at KL Sentral.. What a day!! I'm finding it very difficult to handle her.. my sis. So irresponsible and unreliable. Today's teens are under tremendous pressure to excel academically as well as socially. When this pressure becomes overwhelming, teens often try to cope through self-defeating behaviors. As they search to find their own identity amidst a crowd of negative influences, frequently their attitude and behavior will spiral out of control. Many times depression will set in and manifest itself in anger and violence or despair and withdrawal. In spite of your love and attention, their judgment has become temporarily clouded, rendering them incapable of comprehending the direction of their life choices. Consequently, they fail or fall behind in school jeopardizing their future.